I guess this is my introduction post lol. I have hidden from my feelings for years. Several close friends and family members have known even before I would admit it to myself. I have found myself attracted to several women in the past but dismissed myself as confused. I have been terrified to even consitter the fact that I might be gay. I did not want to go to hell because of my desires. It took meeting a dear friend who is both lesbian and a christian to realize that the two were not mutually exclusive. This site has been incredibly helpful in sorting out my feelings. I have told a few friends and family members but the majority of the world doesn't know.

I guess my question is this. I imagine that once I step forward and admit who I am the releif will be immense and worth any turmoil. Being true to myself for the first time in my life seems like such a freeing thought. Did you find it was a releif when you came out? Is there anything I need to be prepared for that I may not have thought yet. Any words of wisdom for when I do this.

Thank you this has been the scariest but most fufiling journy in my life and the next step seems the biggest.

Ginny,

Welcome to the site. I've not "come out" to everyone in my life, and have no plans to do so anytime soon. But for me, just admitting my desires to myself and to God and to a few close friends and family members was in itself an incredible relief.

Please see some of the other discussions on the site about coming out. They'll likely be a great help to you.

I am originally from SW Florida. May I ask where you are?

Take care, Ginny. Continue to post and let us get to know you better.

searcher2003

I came out almost 12 years ago and all my fears were without foundation. It was very freeing. I'm not saying you might not raise a few eyebrows but I think people are finally getting that everyone in the world is not hetero.
Praying for you to draw as close to the Lord as you can in the days to come!!! he is your Rock and your defense!!!

HIS WISDOM GUIDE YOU,
ROSE

Hi Ginny!

I'm in between Searcher and Rose...I'm coming out a little at a time. And, no matter what the reaction, it's very freeing indeed!

You've no doubt read some thoughts from women that had bad experiences. Keep in mind that not everyone is going to be happy but it indeed a great relief!

God Bless.
Carol

Welcome Ginny,
I really think that you know when the time is right. It is a good feeling to know that you can be completely yourself after you come out to someone. I am in the education field and I know I will NEVER be completely out at work. Do what YOU feel comfortable with. There are NO rules. Go with YOUR heart.