I was a little slow and didn't get the first part posted. My friend called me one day and wanted to know if I knew a pastor who would marry her brother and his partner in honour of their 25 years together. I gave her the number of my pastor friend and he agreed to do the wedding and this is what happened. I made an appointment to see my pastor friend with several friends as they wanted to ask him some question re. the issue. My pastor friend is gay.